“That’ll Teach Them a Lesson!” (really?)

March 26th, 2010 by Christopher

Toxicity alert. Whenever I hear that I cringe a little. How many times has the silent treatment (or any negative behavior towards someone) ever taught anyone a lesson, least of all the lesson intended? I’ve never used it because, in my experience, I never saw that it worked. Yet, people still do this all the ..read more..

Have a Nice Day vs. Make it a Great Day!

March 1st, 2010 by Christopher

What does “have a nice day” really mean? I think the way most people use it, it means I wish you well today. Is “having a nice day” something that just happens to you randomly? It really isn’t anything more than hoping that the day works out for someone? Coming from a service worker, does ..read more..

“Thinking of You” (made simple)

February 8th, 2010 by Christopher

When was the last time that something told you that they were thinking about you? How did you feel? I know that I feel good when I hear (or see) that news. When was the last time that you sent someone a “thinking of you” card? I know that I see them in the stores ..read more..

“Good Morning [name optional]!”

February 7th, 2010 by Christopher

“Daddy, why did you say ‘Good Morning” to that person?” At the bus stop each morning i remind my six year old daughter to acknowledge everyone who greets her with a “Good Morning.” She’s a bit shy, so it takes  some work to coax her. Sometimes I feel like it’s hard to get her to ..read more..