“That’ll Teach Them a Lesson!” (really?)

March 26th, 2010 by Christopher

Toxicity alert. Whenever I hear that I cringe a little. How many times has the silent treatment (or any negative behavior towards someone) ever taught anyone a lesson, least of all the lesson intended? I’ve never used it because, in my experience, I never saw that it worked. Yet, people still do this all the ..read more..

Is happiness…

March 17th, 2010 by Christopher

…wanting what you get? Have you ever asked life to “bring it on” in a good way? “I’m ready.” “I’m determined to take what I get and make it something great.” “Bring me a lesson, a challenge, a good time.” I’ve only found myself consciously in this mode a few times and the feeling is ..read more..

That Slowpoke In Front of You (a blessing in disguise?)

March 4th, 2010 by Christopher

is starting to make you feel a little crazy. “I’ve got stuff to do. ” “What are they doing?” “Don’t they get it?” “Can’t they hurry up or just get out of the way?” “There should be a special line for people who need a little more time.” “They’re slowing me down from my very ..read more..

Have a Nice Day vs. Make it a Great Day!

March 1st, 2010 by Christopher

What does “have a nice day” really mean? I think the way most people use it, it means I wish you well today. Is “having a nice day” something that just happens to you randomly? It really isn’t anything more than hoping that the day works out for someone? Coming from a service worker, does ..read more..